The oldest asked if I ever had a boyfriend before daddy. Peppering me with questions. Laser focus, the hyper focus enjoyed by those with ADHD when they like a subject.
Rocco and I were married when i was 36. 37? Had boyfriends galore and an ex husband by then. Where in the world did she learn about this? I dodged the question.
Is it time to tell them about dead end marriages with abusive alcoholics?
When do I tell them about the baby who died before they were born?
When do I tell them what medical termination means.
Incompatibility with life.
Now all of a sudden the donor egg question doesn't seem as scary.